Start with a wish.
Choose a mood, add a few words and invite your partner to shape the details. Review the proposal before it becomes an agreement.
Connection & playA little intention. A closer connection.Make room
Make room
for a little
anticipation.
A shared wish. A personal goal. A small act of care. Velvet Rule helps adult couples make space for connection, support and something to look forward to.
Web app · For adults 18+
Apps for iPhone and Android are planned.
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A moment for the two of you
What are you
in the mood for?
A small gesture can be a lovely place to start.
CONNECTION & PLAY
A little undivided attention.
Pick a song. Put your phones aside. Give each other a moment.
10 minutes · Just usYour pace. Your shared agreement.
Something to look forward toTonight.
Just the two of us.
ILLUSTRATIVE APP CONCEPTJust the two of us.
Connection & playPersonal growthEveryday care
Connection deserves a little spaceLess “what shall we do?”
Less “what shall we do?”
More looking forward to it.
Three ways to make room for each other: share a wish, build a personal routine with support, or offer a little help. Start with what matters to you today.
Grow with support.
Make room for reading, movement or a project of your own. Set a manageable rhythm and agree how your partner can support you.
Personal growthMake everyday life lighter.
Find a small way to help or ask for a hand. Let a thoughtful intention become a practical plan you both agree on.
Everyday careA taste of the toneWhat could your
What could your
next moment be?
A wish can start with Connect, Unwind or Anticipate. These examples show the tone; they are not a list of activities available in the app.
One song. Just us.
Choose a song together, put your phones aside, and share one thing you appreciated about each other today.
From wish to shared activityA wish.
A wish.
An agreement.
A shared moment.
When you ask your partner to shape a wish, the details come back to you for confirmation. A wish alone is not an agreement.
Start with the web version. Apps for iPhone and Android are planned.
1
Put your wish into words.
Start with a mood, a few words and a preferred time. You can add an idea from the library or ask your partner to shape your wish.
2
Let your partner shape the plan.
Your partner turns the wish into a proposal with the activity, timing and who takes part, then sends it back for your review.
3
Agree, then follow through.
Accept, ask for changes or decline. Once agreed, find the plan in Our plans and record completion as agreed. Changed terms need a new confirmation.
A little more intention.
A little more “us”.
Warm and open to your kind of connection. Built around the belief that shared play starts with willing participation and room to change your mind.
A few things to know.
Who is Velvet Rule for?
Velvet Rule is for adults aged 18 and over who want to share wishes, support personal goals and show care in everyday life. The shared journeys are designed for connected partners.
Is this a web app or a mobile app?
Velvet Rule is currently a web app, used through a browser. Dedicated apps for iPhone and Android are planned; their release dates have not been announced. The phone illustration on this website is a design illustration, not an App Store screenshot.
Do we need an established dynamic?
No. You can start with everyday care, a personal routine or a shared wish. Lead, Follow, Switch and Neutral are available dynamics; none replaces your partner’s agreement to a proposal.
How do personal routines work?
Choose a goal, set minutes per session and a number of sessions, then agree on support: Just agree, Follow along or Help me stay on track. Both partners can see progress. Check-ins are something you agree to do together, not automatic reminders or push notifications.
Can we change our minds?
An open wish can be adjusted or withdrawn. You can ask for changes or decline a proposal. Material changes need the other partner’s confirmation. Declining or stopping does not trigger an automatic consequence.
Are rewards and consequences required?
No. They are optional terms you can include in an activity or routine proposal. They need to be agreed and have their own follow-up; declining a proposal does not create a penalty.
What about privacy?
You create your Velvet Rule account using your email address in the web app. Both partners can see agreed routines and their progress in every support mode. Read the Privacy Policy in the app for details about account and activity data.
Make a little time for us.
Open Velvet Rule in your browser and connect with your partner. Share a wish, start a routine or find a small way to help.
Get started ↗Web version first. iPhone and Android apps are planned.